THE CUMPLEXITY BLOG

 A reader has asked, "Does it matter if you take his load deep?" A great question. I mean, I know what you're all answering in your head: FUCK YEAH IT DOES! And you're also-fucking-lutely right. It matters if you take the load deep. It fucking does. Ideally that fuck stick inside you should be buried balls deep when he lets go of the clenched muscle of orgasm and starts involuntarily pumping his seed into you. It's just biological - on both ends - that his sperm should be going as fucking deep inside you as possible.  I mean, in the animal world it's the primal requirement to give that sperm the best shot of impregnation. So why should the act itself be any more different just because we're gay men. We're all after the same fucking thing. Now I do have one caveat - which is that ultimately the top should cum however deep he likes. Because the more he likes it, the more sperm he'll shoot. And we want that as well. But a true breeding top won't f...

THE INSATIABLE NEED FOR SPERM    We have so many names for it. Cum. Jizz. Spooge. But let's call it what it is. Sperm. Semen. Those little tadpoles they showed you in biology class. It's the elixir of life. The baby making batter. And it's the reason you're here in this world, and on my website. Because whether you're craving someone else's, or you're looking to squirt our your own, it's the very reason you find yourself seeking out porn, images and videos of other men fucking and sucking, it's calling to you and rightly so. It's fucking awesome. Where do I even start? I mean, shooting your load feels fucking awesome, right? Yeah, the orgasm is intense but emptying your balls is the thing that clears your head. It has a chemical reaction throughout your entire body. It fucking exhausts you to cum and it changes your whole mood. It's that fucking powerful. And that's before you couple that intense moment with the presence of another fuckin...

Virtually all men - straight or gay - need to bury their dicks inside hot holes to deliver that white load that drives them so crazy when it remains unexpended. For young experimental guys, if their need to do so leads them to accept a guy’s mouth or his ass as a viable substitute for the girl's mouth or pussy they might prefer, it's just the nature of the game. A surprisingly large number of those who cheerfully accept the substitute become sufficiently curious about why the men and boys who suck their cocks or take their dicks up the ass seem so deliriously happy to do so, that they try it for themselves. There are also some who practice cock- sucking and passive buttfucking purely as a way of returning the favor to friends or friendly strangers who suck them off or welcome loads of their cum up the butt. But whether it is curiosity or compensation that is the motive for a TSG, a Theoretically Straight Guy, to offer full reciprocity in homosexual lovemaking, he is liable-a...

A few readers have asked me if there’s any scientific proof that we take in his DNA and absorb his seed when he pumps his load into us?  I am clearly a fucking scientist so you came to the right place.  While there have been very limited studies into anal sex with men specifically, we can certainly make some logical conclusions based on previous scientific studies. One thing we know without a fucking doubt: our holes are extremely absorbent and cum stays alive for days inside our bodies.   Semen plasma has a ridiculous amount of benefits to it. When a man finishes inside someone, it can affect the partner in a lot of ways. Usually, this happens through the vagina. However, newer research has shown that semen exuded in the anus during anal sex has the same effects and benefits. Some common benefits of sperm are as follows: natural anxiety reducer, anti-depressant, improves the quality of sleep, increases energy, natural pain reducer, improves mental alertness, and has the ...

Listen, I'm the last person on earth who's going to tell a top what to do.  By all means, do what you want to to get your rocks off.  It's a fucking privilege for me that you chose me and my holes to fuck and I know that.  Cock is my purpose and for you to trust me to be the vessel for you to experience your orgasm in... well fuck,  I can't think of anything better. But I want to know that you're cumming. I want to hear it in your voice. Be vocal.  My hole feels good, yeah? Say it. You're gonna pump me full of your babies? Tell me. If you can't form words, I want to hear grunts. I want to know that I'm taking you all the way baby and that the moment has arrived. We've all been with dudes who make us resort to looking for subtle cues. Yeah we see you're breathing heavier, but that could just mean you're enjoying the moment. If you're about to pump my body full of sperm, let me know. It allows me to know, to keep doing what I'm doing, w...