TAKING HIS LOAD DEEP

 A reader has asked, "Does it matter if you take his load deep?"

A great question. I mean, I know what you're all answering in your head: FUCK YEAH IT DOES!

And you're also-fucking-lutely right. It matters if you take the load deep. It fucking does.

Ideally that fuck stick inside you should be buried balls deep when he lets go of the clenched muscle of orgasm and starts involuntarily pumping his seed into you. It's just biological - on both ends - that his sperm should be going as fucking deep inside you as possible. 

I mean, in the animal world it's the primal requirement to give that sperm the best shot of impregnation. So why should the act itself be any more different just because we're gay men. We're all after the same fucking thing.



Now I do have one caveat - which is that ultimately the top should cum however deep he likes. Because the more he likes it, the more sperm he'll shoot. And we want that as well. But a true breeding top won't fuck through his ejaculation. He'll keep his spasming cock buried deep until his balls are empty. And he'll feel more satisfied with a job well done than if he came any other way.

And when the time for his orgasm is approaching we should make sure we are in the best position to help that load go deep. By then we should be fully opened, tunneled, warmed up and wet. If you're in doggy, nows the time to drop your torso low and let gravity help out. Missionary? Look into his eyes and, if it works, pull him in by wrapping your legs around his ass. Cowboy? He says he's cumming and you sit the fuck down and make that fucker dissapear.

In either case, taking it deep isn't just a physical act, it's a verbal one of letting him know where you want him to blast his seed. Let him know. Use your words. He'll get turned on and cum even more.

Nothing feels better than playing with yourself after the fuck and feeling zero remnants of his load in your hole because he shot it so deep it's staying in there.

And of course for the bottom, it fucking matters too, doesn't it? Because the sperm is getting pumped so deep, it's never leaving. It's almost instantaneously getting absorbed by your guts - deep in your guts. 

It's not uncommon for a bottom to plug himself with a butt plug or fuck himself with a dildo to try and get the man's sperm to go even further. It's just in our biology.

So yes reader, take that load deep.



THE INSATIABLE NEED FOR SPERM


THE INSATIABLE NEED FOR SPERM 



 

We have so many names for it. Cum. Jizz. Spooge. But let's call it what it is. Sperm. Semen. Those little tadpoles they showed you in biology class. It's the elixir of life. The baby making batter. And it's the reason you're here in this world, and on my website.



Because whether you're craving someone else's, or you're looking to squirt our your own, it's the very reason you find yourself seeking out porn, images and videos of other men fucking and sucking, it's calling to you and rightly so. It's fucking awesome.



Where do I even start? I mean, shooting your load feels fucking awesome, right? Yeah, the orgasm is intense but emptying your balls is the thing that clears your head. It has a chemical reaction throughout your entire body. It fucking exhausts you to cum and it changes your whole mood. It's that fucking powerful. And that's before you couple that intense moment with the presence of another fucking person. Two of you in a room exploding and blowing your loads is just magic.



As men our biological purpose is to shoot our loads in holes and procreate. Let's not get too highbrow. It's not about dates or marriage. If we were in the jungle we'd just give each other a look and all of sudden we'd be humping until one of us was impregnated.



That act of breeding and seeding is what we get as gay man with none of the annoyance of the baby that would come later. Nah, we just get to fucking pump our loads and enjoy all the benefits that come along with it.



For some of us we could just take loads all day long, in fact, we dream about it. We fantasize about swallowing as many loads as we can. We lie in bed thinking about cocks erupting with massive loads and seek those loads out. From anyone, anywhere. We don't fucking care if the guy has a boyfriend. I'm just fucking starving for him to shoot his load. Then he can go back to his boyfriend.



And to receive another mans load is just such a fucking intense and incredible experience. To feel a cock pulse and twitch as he grunts in pleasure and his seed transfers into you is incredible to say the least. To know that those little babies are swimming around inside you, coating your throat or shot deep into your ass is a fucking act that we are privileged to enjoy.



And make no mistake we are lucky to be able to enjoy each others cum, erm sperm, like generations before us could not, and we need to make up for lost time men. We need to blow our loads in as many willing holes as we can to make up for lost time and in turn, receive the loads of any cock that needs to nut as that is at the heart of what is to be a sexual gay man.

TSG: Theoretically Straight Guys

Virtually all men - straight or gay - need to bury their dicks inside hot holes to deliver that white load that drives them so crazy when it remains unexpended. For young experimental guys, if their need to do so leads them to accept a guy’s mouth or his ass as a viable substitute for the girl's mouth or pussy they might prefer, it's just the nature of the game.
A surprisingly large number of those who cheerfully accept the substitute become sufficiently curious about why the men and boys who suck their cocks or take their dicks up the ass seem so deliriously happy to do so, that they try it for themselves. There are also some who practice cock- sucking and passive buttfucking purely as a way of returning the favor to friends or friendly strangers who suck them off or welcome loads of their cum up the butt.

But whether it is curiosity or compensation that is the motive for a TSG, a Theoretically Straight Guy, to offer full reciprocity in homosexual lovemaking, he is liable-and quite probably likely-to find he enjoys it, and to seek repetition of the experience. This does not really alter the status of his TSG-hood.

The first time a TSG kneels in front of, lies below, or hovers over a guy with a hard cock that needs servicing, the sexual tension the throbbing prick represents is com-municable; he understands all too well the need it represents. The situation makes his own prick began to sliffen and grow, and he can even smell sex in the air. He can clearly see the need jutting out before his face, quivering at his mouth. He reaches out to encircle the shaft with his hand, and he can feel the pulse of unfulfilled lust coursing beneath the surface, and his own erection continues to swell and begins to throb. When his lips first open to admit the head of the needy hard-on, the taste of sex makes his blood run faster.


The wider his lips have to stretch to accommodate the cock-head, and the farther his lips are able to travel along the shaft, the more excited he becomes; in short, the bigger the prick, the greater the thrill. Hearing the moans of joy that the man or boy who now begins to drive a prick into his hungry mouth maximizes the TSG’s sexual intoxication, and he probably needs to stroke his own demanding cock as all his five senses come into focus and he begins to feel his willingness to service his fuckbuddy turn into a llilnger to do so-even though that appetite may have begun as obligation.


The feeling of his buddy’s asscheeks quivering and writhing as he drives that hard cock into his throat is very exciting, knowing from experience how exciting it is to be ramming his own cock into the hot suction of a hungry mouth while it is gripped by tightly compressed lips. He may gag at first, but as excitement grows, his ability to take more and more of his fuckbuddy’s prick matches that growth, and somehow, there’s even a sense of pride about managing to take it all- or most of it, in the happy event that the cock is so huge it's impossible to deep-throat it. Remembering only too well the ecstasy he always feels when he finally shoots his own load into a guy's throat, he resolves to take all the cum his partner can give him, without gagging or spitting it out. Then his fuckbuddy’s hands seize his head and pull his mouth as far down on the shaft as it will go, often burying the TSG’s lips in a tangle of pubic hair at the base, and the cum spews deep inside his throat-and even though he may wonder if he really
wants to eat the hot, viscous discharge, his buddy is so thrilled to offer it to him, gasping his relief and encouraging him to eat it all, that he swallows and licks the remainder from his buddy’s still-hard prick.


Like everyone else, whether they will admit it or not, he has often tasted his own cum, so he has a good idea what the load just blown in his mouth is going to taste like; he finds it doesn’t taste bad at all-in fact, as his own orgasm arrives, which his continuous mas- turbation during cocksucking has brought about, he finds he loves the excitement-enhanced taste and is looking forward to sucking
out another load very soon, hopefully in sixty-nine, with his fuckbuddy eating his own cum at the same time.

And that's only the beginning of the gratification the Theoretically Straight Guy finds in returning the favors a fuckbuddy has earned, and if he is perhaps just a bit less straight than he was before-perhaps he is now a PBG, a Potentially Bisexual Guy-he is that much more likely to enjoy what comes next.


Remembering how a casual sexual companion or a fuckbuddy registered pain while he entered him the first time he fucked him, and how that pain turned to joyous thrill in short order, the TSG or PBG is prepared to accept the pain as a necessary prologue to that joy. If the amount of pain he feels when his fuckbuddy begins to fill his ass with hard dick is more than he expected, the blandish- ments his fucker coos into his ear, and the anticipation of the bliss he has observed every boy or man evidence while he
fucked him, help to get him past the initial pain. Once the thrill takes over, the gentle encouragements his fuckmate has been whispering into his ear turn to fevered exhortations to enjoy the fuck. As the gentle encour- agements were perhaps needed to prepare him, no exhortations to enjoy it are actually required once the fuck begins in earnest.


In fact it is likely that the TSG himself will do the exhorting-urging and begging his fucker to hammer his ass harder, faster, and deeper, and to fill it with a hot load. By the time the first spurt of cum has exploded in his ass, he will most likely have discovered that getting fucked can be much more exciting and gratifying than fucking, although to that point he had thought there was nothing more gratifying than fucking. The feel of a big prick slamming in and out of him is so stimulating that he often needs
only a few strokes on his own cock to reach orgasm. After considerable experience, he will most likely decide that when it comes to taking a dick up the ass, and considerations of fucking technique being equal, the old axiom “the bigger the better” is applicable- within reason, of course.

If the Theoretically Straight Guy who has just enjoyed sucking his first cock is a little less straight than he was before, once he has learned not just the joy of cocksucking, but the thrill of getting fucked as well, he is exponentially less so - almost surely a PBG, and perhaps even a committed switch-hitter. Much to his astonishment, he might even find he is not straight at all! In any event, he will probably understand the position of the famous movie heartthrob Iames Dean, who-when asked if he had sex with men as well as women-said he didn't see any reason to go around with one hand tied behind his
back!





THE SCIENCE OF RECEIVING HIS SPERM

A few readers have asked me if there’s any scientific proof that we take in his DNA and absorb his seed when he pumps his load into us? I am clearly a fucking scientist so you came to the right place. 

While there have been very limited studies into anal sex with men specifically, we can certainly make some logical conclusions based on previous scientific studies. One thing we know without a fucking doubt: our holes are extremely absorbent and cum stays alive for days inside our bodies. 



Semen plasma has a ridiculous amount of benefits to it. When a man finishes inside someone, it can affect the partner in a lot of ways. Usually, this happens through the vagina. However, newer research has shown that semen exuded in the anus during anal sex has the same effects and benefits.


Some common benefits of sperm are as follows: natural anxiety reducer, anti-depressant, improves the quality of sleep, increases energy, natural pain reducer, improves mental alertness, and has the ability to increase a partner’s libido.


Of course it fucking does. There’s a reason we need it and crave it. Why we stare at and worship those balls when we’re finally at crotch level. Why we nuzzle and lick that outline through his underwear nurturing and coaxing out a bigger and more potent load. It’s as if we’re communicating directly to the seed inside as if to say “get ready boys, you’ll be inside me soon.”. It’s such a fucking amazing and natural act. Science is amazing. Societal expectations are fabricated and bullshit. The fact that you’re reading this with a rock hard cock proved you’ve taped into the truth and your body recognizes it. 


Semen takes control of females’ genes | Royal Society


Even if we ignore the science, there’s the obvious conclusion of how we feel. How do you feel before, during and after a cock breeds you? Tell me about it.





PSA FOR TOPS: CUMMING WITH EMPHASIS

Listen, I'm the last person on earth who's going to tell a top what to do. 

By all means, do what you want to to get your rocks off. 

It's a fucking privilege for me that you chose me and my holes to fuck and I know that. 

Cock is my purpose and for you to trust me to be the vessel for you to experience your orgasm in... well fuck, 

I can't think of anything better.

But I want to know that you're cumming. I want to hear it in your voice. Be vocal. 

My hole feels good, yeah? Say it.

You're gonna pump me full of your babies? Tell me.

If you can't form words, I want to hear grunts. I want to know that I'm taking you all the way baby and that the moment has arrived.

We've all been with dudes who make us resort to looking for subtle cues. Yeah we see you're breathing heavier, but that could just mean you're enjoying the moment.

If you're about to pump my body full of sperm, let me know.

It allows me to know, to keep doing what I'm doing, which could be nothing but keeping myself open and receptive. It prepares my mindframe and my hole to receive that glorious fuck seed I've been craving. And hearing you cum is absolute bliss.

It lets me know that my service has been well received and on a practical and physical level it signals that a change of technique is to follow.

Personally, I find a top who vocalizes their ejaculation extremely satisfying. To me, orgasms should be explosive, violent and vocal. A top announcing his ejaculation carries such a sense of triumph for both parties.

It doesn't matter if it's words or grunts. Listen, I fucking love some animalistic grunts while I'm being impregnated. It tells me the top has made contact with the deep, instinctive drives that are now powering our breeding frenzy. Fuck, to know that he's let himself loose like that and trust me to do that inside of - that's fucking HOT!



Tell me you're about to breed me, impregnate me. Tell me you're going to blow your load. That you're going to cum inside me. Tell me to take your sperm.

Or let yourself go and ride that orgasm out by grunting and groaning and letting me know that you've lost complete control and how good you feel.

Cuz when I know that we've passed the point of no return, I pay fucking attention. All of my senses focus on that cock inside me. I want to be paying attention so I can really appreciate the hardening cock that's orgasming inside me and the subsequent spasms of ejaculation. I want to be fully present when your whole body tenses and you pump your hot load deep into my system.

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