THE CUMPLEXITY BLOG

  Now listen carefully to my preamble. I’m not a fitness coach. I’m not a doctor. Everything I offer is just my insight into what I fucking see and what I think.  I also can tell you that I’ve seen tons of guys get a lot more action and a lot more dick with their personality, attitude and energy than tons of standoffish muscle queens that are so lost in their vanity they forget the real reason we should all be working out as much as healthily can.  For our health?  Ha. Sure.  More like for sex.  Better sex and with more people.  Let’s get into it.  Most of us get turned on by men who are in shape. There’s a reason that a pair of strong arms, or a nice chest peak our interest. Muscles trigger thoughts of masculinity, virility, testosterone.  Sound familiar? Those are huge aspects of what we fucking get excited about when we talk about cock, balls and sperm.  As gay men, we are turned on by those things. Of course, I’m ...

Class is in session. Now we all know the difference between sperm and semen right? Sperm are the tadpoles. Semen is the white fluid that shoots out of his cock - that the sperm is travelling in. And while we all want a nice volumous amount of semen shooting out of that cock. We also really fucking want it to be full of sperm.  So, is there a way to make that happen? After all, when we're fucking, we want to get knocked up and bred. Good news is, yes! There are things you can do RIGHT NOW to help you (or your boyfriend, or your friends boyfriend) make more swimmers. #1 LOSE WEIGHT Overweight men  tend to have lower sperm counts  than those in the normal weight range. This could be due to overheating, which  can kill sperm . Excess body fat around the testicles could insulate them, causing them to get warmer.  Hormonal changes in overweight men can also negatively affect sperm production. Overweight men are more likely to have lower testosterone levels and higher ...

  Seriously dude. Stop jerking off.  That's something you did when you were growing up. It was easy, fun and pleasurable. Feels good in the moment, but it's fleeting and empty. It's just not fucking scratching the itch, is it? Worse than that, you're cutting short your journey down your natural sexual urges by curbing them before they've had a chance to blossom.  Being horny and exploring your sexuality isn't something to brush off. Let yourself get more horny, get in fuck mode. The mode where sex becomes a priority and you're not thinking normally. Stay there. That's a part of who you are. Explore it and own it. Listen, I'm not saying don't get off . I absolutely think you should get off - but with someone . So yeah, stroke, edge, think about sex. But the only time you should push yourself over the edge, the only time your balls should pull up and your cock muscles should launch sperm is in the presence of another person and inside another hol...