BREAKING NEWS: YOU'RE NORMAL!

When I whipped out my cock tonight to watch some porn and jerk off, I didn't expect to write this article. But you know what, I think it's about fucking time.

Clearly my posts, my X account, my book - all of it has struck a chord with so many of you dudes. A lot o you write to me. That's amazing. I want you to write to me. I love hearing your replies to my posts on here and X. I'm always amazed by the shit we all connect with.

But I've also noticed something. Society has really fucked us up, hasn't I? So many of you write to me that you feel guilty about what you feel or what you do.

Now listen, I'm not going to lie and say that sex addiction isn't a thing. It absolutely is. And I know that a lot of my writing is about having the most intense breeding session, which means it's all about getting as horned up a possible. 

I'm not trying to get you addicted to sex. I'm not trying to get you an STI (I wish all gay guys tested regularly and we could have a lot more fun out there with a lot less side effects).

But you know what? There's enough shit out there discouraging you from having sex and not a lot of content out there telling you that it's a healthy part of your INSTINCT to explore. Because you know what? It FUCKING IS!

I'm not trying to convince you to live a porn star fantasy because, guess what fucker? It's a fantasy. You also can't t rust half the stories you read about online. The guy's who are bragging about sleeping with the whole town are mostly exaggerating and the quiet guy who says "he's never done this before" slept with 12 guys this week. This is not about trying to please any fantasy except YOUR OWN. Because your sexual fantasy is as important and primal as any other dream or fantasy you have in your life. And I want you to end your time on earth having lived out as many of them as possible. If I can help with this particular one - amazing!

Listen - that's big of me! Based on how much you've seen me talk about how primal and important to our DNA fucking and breeding is, so if I'm gonna also say that the artificial societal goals in life are also important then you know I'm being at least a little bit reasonable? I'm just saying having a house, a family, a car - all that stuff came after  your biological need to pump and receive seed.

Maybe one day I'll write about mystical thoughts that let's say there was a God and a big plan for the universe...well I think he made gay people appear more often when the population was getting to big. I think it was the Earths way of balancing out procreation. I mean, it's most likely that there seems to b more gay people now than before BECAUSE the world (in some places) is getting better, but maybe it's also the planet's way of making sure there aren't two many offspring makers.

So I'm here representing the other extreme in an attempt to help us all land somewhere in the middle where we can treat it normally.

Because - guess what? - I think it's fucking normal, with the access we have to porn in this day and age, to edge and goon and get lost in our male urge to fuck and cum. I think it helps us access a part of ourselves that society (particularly since christianity has successfully restrained). I think you achieve a greater understanding of your sexuality when you LIVE on the edge of your horniness and explore what it's like t stay there longer, instead of rushing a quick, empty orgasm down the shower drain and feeling guilty or disappointed.

And don't confuse the refraction period after cumming with guilt and regret. Those are entirely different fucking things. The guilt and regret is entirely fictional and thrust upon you from society's rules. The refraction period is a natural thing. Every fiber of your instinct led you to have the dirtiest sex of your life...why? Because that's how men breed. That's how sperm gets to where it needs to go. So, of course your body needs to bounce back from that.

And the better the breeding, the bigger the bounce. GOOD! Get that FUCK out of your system so that you can have your mind clear to focus on other parts of your life. That isn't a split personality. It's something you're hard wired to do. In fact, it's important you do it so that you can fully dive into other aspects of your life as well.

I can't help you with the feelings of guilt or regret - but you do notice how they don't happen after fucking as much as they do with jerking off? That's because jerking off is absolutely not scratching the itch you're looking for.

And all the worries about STI's... well they are natural (and nearly all curable, and we should all do our part to limit them) but that shouldn't lead you to not fully accept your need for sex. Please don't assume for one second that straight men or women worry about those things nearly as much a gay guys who are trying to master their sexuality. Straight men fuck with no worries and the only thing women worry about is getting pregnant.

But in the end, whether you're having a little too much sex and may be facing an addiction, or whether you're dealing with insecurities that prevent you from fully being able to enjoy your sexuality - YOU. ARE. NORMAL. If you're only interested in sex some of the time, or if you're someone who's gotten bored of their husband and feels guilty about wanting to play with someone else... YOU. ARE. NORMAL. And I know this because I've heard hundreds of your stories now and know that we're all on some sort of spectrum when it comes to this. And that's okay. 

Take a deep breath. Look around. 

There's a lot of stuff for us to figure other in life. And sex is one of those things. If you've been drawn to my posts, my book, any of it - it's not me trying to seduce you to the dark side. It's you connecting with things you subconsciously agree with and want. That's fucking awesome. Celebrate that!!!

Good. My PSA is done - but I know a few of you fuckers needed to hear it. 

Now, go back through my posts, visit my X (@subjxx), look at some porn and find a friend to fuck with.

CD.