Oral Worship

 Oral worship is one of the most primalintimate, and sensual acts between men. For the submissive, it’s an opportunity to offer up their body, to serve in a way that connects both the physical and psychological in a deeply fulfilling way. For the dominant, it’s an act that symbolizes ownership, the ability to control and guide the submissive, knowing that their pleasure is tied directly to the submissive’s service.


Oral worship, especially during a breeding session, brings an element of devotion and gratitude that enhances the intensity of the entire experience. It’s about surrendering to the act, and in turn, feeling that power from the other man.




1. The Submissive’s Perspective: The Joy of Giving and Receiving Through Worship


For the submissive, oral worship is the ultimate expression of surrender. It’s about offering your mouth, your lips, and your body to the dominant man — allowing him to use you in the most intimate way possible. But this act goes beyond simply giving head; it’s about devotion to his cock, to the very essence that he holds within him.

 Surrender Through Submission: When you kneel before a man and take his cock in your mouth, it’s more than just an act of oral sex. It’s about submission. You are putting yourself in a vulnerable position, giving him control over your pleasure, allowing him to use your mouth for his satisfaction. It’s a reminder of your purpose — to serve and please him completely.

 The Intimacy of Oral Worship: As you take his cock into your mouth, the intimacy of the moment heightens the connection between the two of you. It’s not just about satisfying him — it’s about feeling the power in your submission, the connection to his cock, and the pleasure that comes from knowing you’re serving him in the most personal way. It’s about honoring him, about acknowledging his power and letting that power take over your senses.

 The Eroticism of the Act: The act of oral worship is inherently erotic because it’s a blend of intimacy and dominance. The submissive takes in everything — the taste of his cock, the feel of it in their mouth, and the sensation of being overwhelmed by the act itself. It’s about completing your role, knowing that you’re dedicated to his pleasure and that everything you do enhances the intensity of the experience.


2. The Dominant’s Perspective: The Power of Control Through Oral Worship


For the dominant, receiving oral worship is an act of complete control and assertion. It’s about using the submissive to fulfill your desires, about making them serve you in the most intimate way. The pleasure that comes from the submissive worshiping your cock is a reminder of the power you hold over them. You are in charge, guiding the act, and enjoying every inch of their devotion.

 Control Through Submission: When you watch your submissive kneel before you, taking your cock in their mouth, you feel the dominance wash over you. Their willingness to serve, to please, is a direct reflection of the power you hold over them. You dictate the pace, the intensity, and the satisfaction. The submissive’s mouth is your tool, their body is your vessel — all in service to your pleasure.

 Heightened Sensory Pleasure: The act of receiving oral worship brings an entirely different level of pleasure to the experience. It’s a slowdeliberate process that allows the dominant to savor the sensation of their cock being worshiped. It’s not just the physical act of sucking; it’s about feeling their devotion, their gratitude, and their desire to make you feel pleasure. Each movement of their mouth, each swirl of their tongue, increases the intensity of the dominant’s arousal.

 The Power of Visual Control: Watching your submissive suck your cock is a visual manifestation of your ownership. Seeing them give themselves completely to you — using their lips, their mouth, their body — is a reminder of the power you have to control their pleasure. It’s a visual that fuels the dominant’s own arousal, building the desire and the need to fill the submissive’s hole with your sperm, reinforcing your dominance and control.


3. Oral Worship as the Gateway to Breeding — The Transition from Service to Submission


Oral worship can serve as the perfect prelude to the full act of breeding. It’s not just about warming up — it’s about establishing a deep connection, building tension, and intensifying the sense of surrender and submission before the dominant finally fills the submissive.

 Building the Connection: The act of worship is an opportunity for the dominant to connect with the submissive. It’s about setting the tone, creating a psychological bond that deepens the experience. As the submissive’s mouth moves over your cock, each stroke brings you closer to the moment of release, but it also solidifies their role as the vessel. The transition from oral worship to full breeding is one of the most intense moments in the dynamic.

 Mental and Physical Preparation: The act of being worshiped orally is a way to prepare both the mind and the bodyfor the intensity of breeding. It’s a slow buildup, a tease that heightens the anticipation. For the submissive, knowing that the dominant is pleasuring them, knowing that their submission is valued, makes them even more ready to be filled, to take in the dominant’s sperm completely.


4. The Beauty of Oral Worship — From Both Sides


Oral worship is one of the most sensual acts in the dynamic between dominant and submissive. It’s not just about the physical act of sucking cock; it’s about the mental and emotional connection it creates. For the submissive, it’s a chance to prove devotion, to be used in the most intimate way. For the dominant, it’s a chance to take control, to guide the submissive into pleasure while simultaneously asserting your power.

 For the Submissive: The act of worship becomes a ritual of submission, a way of honoring the dominant’s pleasurewhile also being pleasured by the act itself. Every movement, every touch, every taste deepens their satisfaction.

 For the Dominant: The visual and physical pleasure of receiving oral worship is about asserting control, feeling the submissive’s mouth as their tool, and ultimately claiming them as your own.

There’s something primal and intoxicating about having a man’s baby maker in your mouth. It’s not just about the taste or the physical sensation; it’s about the power that flows through you as you wrap your lips around him. It’s the way your body reacts instinctively to the presence of his cock — the heat, the hunger, the desire to take him whole. His baby maker, the most vulnerable yet powerful part of him, becomes your focus, the object of your devotion and submission.


The smell, the taste, the musky aroma of his day’s work — all these sensations combine into a rich experience that no one else can truly understand, but as a gay man, you know exactly how to connect with it, to take it all in. The act of oral worship isn’t just an offering; it’s the primal need to be used and to taste what makes a man powerful — his essence, his sperm, and the control he exerts over you.


1. The Power Between Your Lips


There’s something intensely powerful about having a man’s baby maker in your mouth. It’s not just the sensation of sucking; it’s the control that flows through you as you use your lips, your tongue, and your mouth to bring him pleasure. Every movement of your mouth, every swirl of your tongue, brings you closer to the pleasure that only he can give you. It’s as if your mouth becomes an instrument of his power — each stroke, each lick, brings you deeper into his control.


When you take his cock into your mouth, it’s like everything in your body is aligned with your purpose. Your lips are the tool that will bring him to orgasm, and you are surrendering to his dominance. The intensity of having him in your mouth is about more than just the physical act — it’s the way you are linked to him, the way his power flows through you and drives you to take more, to serve him completely. Every moment, you’re reminded of your place — his cock in your mouth, his power in your hands.


2. The Taste — A Delicious Power


The taste of a man’s cock is a combination of so many things. It’s not just the saltiness or the bitterness of his pre-cum, it’s the depth of the flavor that comes from him being used, from his body being exposed to you. Whether he’s been at work, fresh from the gym, or after a day of sweating, you taste the musk that surrounds him. The smell of his day, his hunger, and the natural odor that comes from his balls and cock.


This taste — it’s not something a woman would understand, nor someone who isn’t attuned to what makes a man’s sperm and cock such a powerful thing. The saltiness, the slight tang of sweat, pre-cum, or even the lingering piss, all combine to give you an experience that can’t be duplicated. Each taste is rich, full, and it fuels your hunger, driving you to want more — to take him deeper into your mouth, to feel him release everything inside you.


That taste drives you wild because it’s the very essence of his masculinity. It makes you crave it more. It’s the reason you kneel, why you submit to him. No one can make you feel this way. Only a man’s cock can bring you the pleasure of knowing exactly what you want, what you need, and what you were meant to do.


3. The Smell — Setting a Bottom into Heat


The smell of a man’s cock is one of the most primal and intoxicating things a cumdump can experience. It’s more than just the odor — it’s the musk, the scent of his sweat, his pre-cum, the residue of his piss that lingers after he’s been using you. That scent sets you into heat, makes your body ache for more, and reminds you of your purpose.


The smell of his balls, that heady aroma that comes from his cock after a long day, fills your senses and drives you to submit. You can smell everything that’s been built up inside him — his desire, his power, his need to use you. The more you breathe it in, the more your body responds to the primal desire of wanting to be filled by him, to taste everything he’s offering.


And it’s powerful, isn’t it? That musk is a part of you now. It’s in your lungs, it’s in your mind, and it drives you further into the submission you crave. The scent of a man’s cock doesn’t just arouse you; it primes your body for what’s to come — the breeding, the domination, and the release that you were made for.


4. The Hunger — What Makes the Bottom Truly Surrender


The desire to worship and suck cock is rooted in a deep hunger — a hunger that can’t be filled by anything but the cockof another man. This hunger isn’t just for pleasure; it’s for purpose. It’s for the experience of being used, of knowing that the man in front of you is about to claim you, to fill you with his seed, to leave his mark inside you.


You want to please him. You want to serve him. Every swallow, every lick, every suck feeds that hunger. It’s a hunger that only a top’s cock can satisfy, and you know, deep inside, that this is exactly what you were made for.


This hunger is what the top desires to see in you. He wants to see that insatiable desire, the way you devour him, and the power you give him through your submission. He wants you to crave him, to need him — to feel that desperation in your mouth as you take him deeper, all the while knowing that he’s in control of the situation.


Conclusion: The Irresistible Power of Oral Worship


There’s nothing quite like having a man’s baby maker in your mouth. The taste, the smell, and the power of the act are what make it so deeply erotic. For the submissive, it’s a moment of complete surrender, where the act of worshiping a man’s cock becomes a primal, almost sacred experience. For the dominant, it’s a display of control, where the submissive gives themselves up completely, all while pleasing and serving him.


Oral worship isn’t just about the act — it’s about connectionsubmission, and the pleasure that comes from being claimed and used. It’s an act that can intensify the experience, create a deeper bond, and ultimately, bring you both closer to the primal act of breeding.

Oral worship is a powerful and sensual act that deepens the connection between the dominant and submissive. It’s a psychological and physical exchange that sets the stage for the ultimate act of breeding. For the submissive, it’s about surrender, devotion, and the intense pleasure of being used for another’s satisfaction. For the dominant, it’s a display of control, of seeing the submissive pleasure in their submission and feeling the power that comes with guiding them toward the final act of breeding.


The beauty of oral worship lies in the intimacy and surrender it fosters, and the way it leads naturally into the final, most powerful moment: the breeding.

ACCEPTING THAT YOUR SEXUAL ORGAN IS YOUR ASSHOLE

 

Listen, a lot of tops read this blog. I tend to speak to the bottoms out there (write what you know, right?) but I often post stuff for my stallions out there. I love that they know what they want. They read this blog and they get turned on by understanding what's really going on with bareback breeding. Many of them write to me and tell me how a particular post has inspired them to go out and fuck and they tell me how before stumbling upon my content they didn't really understand what bottoms got out of fucking.



And no, these aren't all just tops who never tried bottoming. For some dudes, bottoming just isn't for them and THANK GOD. The world needs more tops anyway. I actually think it goes far further though. While some men may be vers (and let's not lie to ourselves - even if you're a bottom, when your cock orgasms, it feels good, and it doesn't feel unpleasant when that happens inside another dude's asshole). But just because something undeniably feels good, doesn't mean that the act of doing it taps into everything else that makes up our sexuality. Because, for many men, though a prostate massage undeniably feels good, they just don't get turned on or deeply passionate about that act happening on them.

As men, particularly gay men who receive no sexual education in our youth, our tendency is to play with our dicks and cum. We aren't really taught to explore our holes, massage our prostates. So we actually come around to learning about our sexuality in complex and poorly understood ways.

Too bad, because if we did, a whole lot of us would have understood at a much younger age that our overriding pleasure came from having our asshole filled, our prostate massaged, and our overall sexual satisfaction greater when being used by a top instead of playing with our own cocks.

Let me speak for myself; the sexual satisfaction I get from being on my knees and making a man's cock leak pre-cum as I work him over with my mouth is far more satisfying than having my own dick sucked. Seeing a man lose his sense of self and unlock his animalistic desires because of my submission and passion turns me on more profoundly than anything else. Then from a physical perspective, every part of fucking and breeding unlocks MY animal side. And it feels good to be in touch with that. From the tip of a bare cock rubbing against my hole, to the feeling of that cock stretching me out, and the eventual mind-numbing pleasure of having another man orgasm and shoot his sperm inside you - to me all of that is more sexually satisfying than blowing my own load. I'm happy I've learned that about myself.f

Still many bottoms only touch the surface of understanding what they really like and how deep their satisfaction can run. It's more than just pleasurable. It's something that is hard wired into many of us, physiologically and psychologically. Just as some people are born gay and thinking of men gets them hard without even being able to articulate it, many gay men are meant to be bottoms. If you ask me on a larger scale, I believe this is by design. 

For many of you, you've told me that you have found your own orgasms unsatisfying in a way that the pleasure of having a cock sliding in and out of your ass just can't compare to. In fact, you find yourself playing with your cock less and less while looking at porn but instead fingering your hole and playing with toys. For a great many of you, this truth only unlocked within yourself after moths of chastity or edging. While the realization came later on, the fact that you already suspected who you were and set out to learn more is hopefully something you can tackle early on in your sex life to have more fun.

I absolutely fucking encourage you to keep up with learning about what you like, and know that will evolve as you become more comfortable with yourself.

You're tapping into a very important part of who you are.

And you're understanding that for some men, their cock is a secondary sexual organ to their assholes and that the pleasure you get from your hole is far superior to anything your own cock can provide.

Explore that more. Accept it.

The Gay Man's Guide To Monogamy

 



Since the day you learned about sex, they've been lying to you.

They told you love and loyalty mean keeping your sexual desires to yourself.
That craving someone new means something's wrong with your relationship.
That your body is a beast to tame—not a truth to honor.

This book says: you were never meant to be monogamous.

With hard science, filthy honesty, and evolutionary clarity, The Gay Man's Book of Monogamy rips the mask off modern love and reveals the primal drive under the surface.
You'll learn why sperm wants to roam. Why testosterone doesn't stop with "I do." Why gay men—freed from the performance of straight respectability—have a rare chance to live sexually honest lives.

Whether you're single, partnered, cheating, or aching to open the cage, this book will show you:

  • Why male desire is built for multiplicity, not monogamy
  • What suppressing that instinct does to the body and mind
  • How to build relationships that honor your biology—not fight it
  • And why love and freedom can co-exist—when you stop lying to yourself

This isn't about being reckless. It's about being real.
Because freedom isn't infidelity.
It's truth.





The Ideal Length Of Fucking

Have you ever wondered what the ideal length for your sexual sessions to take should be?

The answer is... all over the place.

And by that I mean. Obviously the idea of a long fuck with stretched out holes and cocks pumping very volumous loads sounds ideal but, you know what? 

Sometimes there's no time for that. Sometimes there's been so much edging beforehand that it doesn't take much to set loads off. And that's fucking fine too. Sometimes there's only a brief window for the mating session. Maybe someone has to get back to work. Maybe their husband will be home shortly.

If you ask me, I'd take a short fuck versus no fuck.

There is no ideal amount of time. Longer is better, but quick is fucking hot too. 

Just thinking that two dudes can go behind closed doors, and if they were worked up beforehand, they only need seconds to pump each other full of cum.

And now that I've given you my diplomatic answer, let me just be frank. 

Long.


The Impregnation Fantasy

 Even without the possibility of pregnancy, the impregnation fantasy is about being used completely — about a man taking control and claiming you in a way that feels as if he were making a baby. There’s a deep sense of satisfaction in knowing that you’ve been used in that way, that his sperm is deep inside you, marking you in a powerfulprimal way.

THE BREEDING GENERATION -

Have you noticed something? Nobody wears a fucking condom anymore. Nobody. 

Hooking up on a first date? Sharing a bottle of wine with your ex? Following that hot dude into the last bathroom stall? All those guys at the club taking a guy or two back to their place? Inviting a stranger from Grindr over? Your find a bunch of guys fooling around in the woods?

It's almost certain that these days the one thing no one wears anymore is a condom.

I mean, at this very moment the amount of guys who have their toes clenched and eyes rolled back as they breed a dude's hole is in the tens of thousands. At this very moment. Now. Right now. While you're reading this.

So stop feeling like you're doing something wrong by doing what is absolutely natural. Sharing our DNA is instinctive and primal. Church and society seem to like to put these artificial standards on men.

It barely works even on straight guys.

Do you think straight dudes are wrapping up? 

Fuck, no. 


Gay Breeding vs. Straight Sex

Sexuality, in its most primal form, is about connection — about two bodies coming together, driven by instinct and desire. While straight sex has the potential to create life, there’s something inherently intense and raw about the act of two men engaging in breeding. Maybe it's all that fucking testosterone? I think it's just those hard cocks pointed in the air and heavy balls flopping around.

The sight of two men mounting each other, the way their bodies come together in dominance and submission, is much like a scene out of the wild, where animals fight for dominance and try to claim each other in the most primal way possible. It’s not about reproduction; it’s about the connection — the desire to take, to be taken, to breed, to submit, and to own. When two men get horny and the clothes come off, things get serious.

THE DUALITY OF MEN


It’s not just sexual—it’s alchemical.

A man walks into a room still wearing his day.

His name. His job. His social mask.

But when the door locks, when the zipper drops, when a hole is presented to him without hesitation—something inside him shifts.

Many of us feel like we live two lives. One who goes to work, has drinks with friends - and the other that sucks random cocks through glory holes or breeds a stranger off sniffles in a park without knowing his name.

Guess what? There are two sides - fuck it, hundreds of sides - to most of us, and most of them conflict or can't run at the same time as each other. I'm here to tell you that what happens when your entire persona changes when you get horny and sex is on offer is NORMAL, and it's fucking HOT.

WHY BEING "IN HEAT" MAKES A DIFFERENCE

It’s the difference between getting fucked and being bred.

Between taking a cock and taking everything a man has to give.

Between sex… and fulfillment.

Here’s why being in heat matters:

1. Your Body Becomes More Responsive

  • When you’re in heat, your cunt pulls cock in.

  • Your muscles soften, grip, and milk instinctively.

  • Your whole body becomes a magnet for sperm.

Men feel it.

They don’t even have to know why—it’s primal.

They see your eyes, your sweat, your desperation, and their balls tighten. Their instincts whisper: “Breed this one. He needs it.”

WHY BREEDING TOPS SHOULD SEEK CAGED BOTTOMS

Friday night. You're not just horny. You don't just want to fuck. You want to be serviced. You want to breed. You’re not just looking to blow a load. You’re looking for a place to put it. Somewhere it belongs. Somewhere it’s needed. And nothing screams that louder than a locked-up bottom.

1. A Caged Bottom Has One Purpose: Cock
He’s not jerking off behind your back.
He’s not wasting his energy on porn, parties, or ego.
He’s waiting.
Every drop of heat, every bit of tension in his locked prick, is redirected—toward you.
Toward serving.
Toward your cock.
He’s not just horny.
He’s focused.
The cage trains his body to ache for seed, not release.

The Psychology Behind the ‘Cumdump’ Role and the Shame-free Embrace

Being a cumdump is often misunderstood or stigmatized, but it’s time to reclaim the power behind the role. To embrace being a vessel for cock and sperm, a tool for men’s pleasure, is not about being degraded; it’s about understanding your place in the sexual world and accepting it without shame. The psychology of the cumdump role goes beyond simple sexual acts — it’s about self-awareness acceptance, and embracing your purpose. Does that sound like you? Fuck yeah? Read on.

Reclaiming Gay Pride: Fuck Bareback, Get Bred, and Remember What It Means to Be Free





Gay Pride isn’t about rainbow logos.

It isn’t about corporate sponsorships, drag brunches, or performative allyship.

Gay Pride is when we fuck raw.
When we open our holes and take cock bare.
When we let a man pump his sperm into us, on purpose.
No fear. No shame. No filter.

That is pride.

Because gay sex has always been called immoral.
And every time we do it anyway?
That’s resistance. That’s protest. That’s the parade.

THE GAY MEN'S BREEDING BIBLE: FULLY LOADED EDITION

 





Hey fuckers,

After the popularity of our last book (which we provided two years of updates for) we're announcing a whole new edition with nearly double the content (and illustrations). It's both a culmination of all the great stuff we've been writing about here, on reddit and from the web. It's fucking hot and you support the continuation of our content by purchasing it. 


PRE- ORDER THE NEW EDITION HERE:

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DS1QBWRJ


PREVIOUS EDITION STILL AVAILABLE:

AMAZON

https://a.co/d/4sjRP4t

APPLE

http://surl.li/ruqum

BARNES & NOBLE

https://tinyurl.com/56re3b2w

Top Ten Reasons to be a CumDump Today



1. It’s Who You Are:

You are a vessel made to be filled. This is your purpose. When you submit to the act of breeding, you’re living in alignment with your true nature. This isn’t just about sex, it’s about fulfilling what your body craves. And today, you get to embrace that fully, without hesitation. Be proud cuz most of society doesn't have any connection with their biological needs.


2. You’re Made to Take More:

Your body is designed to take it. It really is. Your hole can take dick. Your prostate is exactly where he's going to pound. And you've done your part too, right? You’ve been caged, denied, and you’re now in the perfect state to receive what you’ve been craving. You’re built to be used by multiple men. Each load you take enhances your fulfillment and reinforces your purpose. This is your time to take as much as you can handle.


3. It’s About Releasing Your Hunger:

Every time you’re filled, that hunger gets satisfied, but only for a while. The desire doesn’t go away. It builds. So today, you can indulge in that craving, let the heat take over, and feel the release you’ve been denying yourself. The more you take, the more complete you’ll feel.


4. Being Filled Feels Like Coming Home:

When you’re bred, you are exactly where you belong. The feeling of being claimed, of being filled, is not just physical. It’s mentalemotional. It’s the deepest form of connection you can have. Every drop of sperm you take is a reminder that you’re serving your true purpose.


5. Multiple Men = Maximum Pleasure:

There’s something about the cumulative experience of being filled by several men. Each new man adds to the sensation, the intensity. Your body craves that fullness more than anything. The more you take, the more your body will respond with deeper satisfaction. It’s about pleasure and the build-up — it will only get better the more you let go.


6. Embrace Your Submission:

You’re not just taking sperm, boy. You’re submitting. Every load you take is an act of ownership. How powerful.You belong to these men for the moment, and that’s exactly how it should be. The satisfaction that comes from complete submission is like nothing else. You don’t have to worry about anything — just serve and take what they give.


7. This Is the Ultimate Release:

Being filled over and over again is the ultimate release. Each load, each man, deepens your connection to your primal self. There is no greater feeling than being completely used, feeling exhausted and fulfilled in the most basic way. Multiple rounds will give you that release you’ve been missing.


8. You Were Made for Pleasure:

To be used by multiple men today isn’t just about getting off. It’s about pleasure in its most raw form. Your body is meant to experience ecstasy through submission and being bred. Each time you’re filled, you unlock a new level of satisfaction. You are meant to experience that pleasure in its most primal and undiluted form.


9. It’s Your Time to Be Free:

You have free time today? Get to fucking!,You have the freedom to fully indulge in your desires without any reservations. No guilt, no hesitation. This is the time to explore your purpose completely, to let go of any doubts and embrace the pleasure of being used by multiple men. Don’t waste it — you deserve this freedom.


10. You’ll Be Fully Recharged:

Every load, every man who breeds you will fill you not just physically, but mentally. You’ll feel recharged in ways you can’t even imagine — your desires fully satisfied, your purpose fulfilled. The hunger that’s been building will be sated, and you’ll be left feeling complete and ready to serve again.



Oral Worship

 Oral worship is one of the most  primal ,  intimate , and  sensual  acts between men. For the  submissive , it’s an opportunity to offer up...