THE CUMPLEXITY BLOG

THE JOYS OF PUBLIC SEX  I'm hard-pressed to think of a gay guy I know who hasn't done some kind of sex act in public. Sometimes you just need to get down and fuck - and there's no good place or time. And may I just say - why the fuck would you wait until an appropriate time? If we were in the fucking jungle do you think you'd wait until later? FUCK NO. You'd present your hole. He'd get hard. And bam, you'd be pressed up against a tree trying to make a baby.  Maybe neither of you has a place to go. Maybe you have a boyfriend. Maybe he's married. Or maybe you're just so fucking horned up that the best place and time is right now in the those bushes. I say steam up those car windows and blow your load somewhere other than the bedroom in your apartment. Sex in public can be so fucking hot. You never know who may pass by and join in. Usually it's with a stranger and someone you'll never meet again. Nothing like finishing the act somewhere less tha...

 ABSORBING HIS LOAD So you just got fucked. Awesome. Bareback? Even better.  You let a dude blew his load in your ass. What’s your next move?  When he leaves, do you run to the bathroom and flush his babies down the toilet? FUCK NO. You just received his SEED, his SPERM, his CUM. Use whatever word you like to describe it but it’s his warm DNA, pumped straight from his balls directly into the most absorb and part of your body. He chose YOU and YOUR HOLE as the place for his climax. You lucky fucker.  Those little sperm are swimming around inside your guts and already being absorbed into your system. They started burrowing themselves and changing you on a chemical level almost instantaneously, hell, you started taking his DNA the moment he started coating your insides with his pre-cum. That’s just how the fucking science works. Now his balls are empty and you’re lying there with your guts coated in his baby batter.  Now listen to me, You hold them until you’ve ful...

 Another reader has asked if being in heat is a real thing. Oh it's a real thing. I feel it. I bet you feel it. Maybe we tend to think of the term mostly with women, but you know why the fuck that is? Cuz there's no science team studying what slutty gay bottoms feels. Maybe you haven't always been able to articulate it, but it's there. Let's look at the definition of being in heat " When a  female  animal is  on heat  in British English, or  in heat  in American English, she is in a state where she is  ready  to  mate  with a  male  animal, as this  will   probably  result in her  becoming   pregnant ." I don't know about you but that describes me about three times a week. One reader over at breeding zone described it so well: "The longer it goes, the more in-heat I feel, and the more willing I become to do just about anything to take a cock. Inhibitions melt like butter, caution flutters away like...

 A reader has asked, "Does it matter if you take his load deep?" A great question. I mean, I know what you're all answering in your head: FUCK YEAH IT DOES! And you're also-fucking-lutely right. It matters if you take the load deep. It fucking does. Ideally that fuck stick inside you should be buried balls deep when he lets go of the clenched muscle of orgasm and starts involuntarily pumping his seed into you. It's just biological - on both ends - that his sperm should be going as fucking deep inside you as possible.  I mean, in the animal world it's the primal requirement to give that sperm the best shot of impregnation. So why should the act itself be any more different just because we're gay men. We're all after the same fucking thing. Now I do have one caveat - which is that ultimately the top should cum however deep he likes. Because the more he likes it, the more sperm he'll shoot. And we want that as well. But a true breeding top won't f...

THE INSATIABLE NEED FOR SPERM    We have so many names for it. Cum. Jizz. Spooge. But let's call it what it is. Sperm. Semen. Those little tadpoles they showed you in biology class. It's the elixir of life. The baby making batter. And it's the reason you're here in this world, and on my website. Because whether you're craving someone else's, or you're looking to squirt our your own, it's the very reason you find yourself seeking out porn, images and videos of other men fucking and sucking, it's calling to you and rightly so. It's fucking awesome. Where do I even start? I mean, shooting your load feels fucking awesome, right? Yeah, the orgasm is intense but emptying your balls is the thing that clears your head. It has a chemical reaction throughout your entire body. It fucking exhausts you to cum and it changes your whole mood. It's that fucking powerful. And that's before you couple that intense moment with the presence of another fuckin...

Virtually all men - straight or gay - need to bury their dicks inside hot holes to deliver that white load that drives them so crazy when it remains unexpended. For young experimental guys, if their need to do so leads them to accept a guy’s mouth or his ass as a viable substitute for the girl's mouth or pussy they might prefer, it's just the nature of the game. A surprisingly large number of those who cheerfully accept the substitute become sufficiently curious about why the men and boys who suck their cocks or take their dicks up the ass seem so deliriously happy to do so, that they try it for themselves. There are also some who practice cock- sucking and passive buttfucking purely as a way of returning the favor to friends or friendly strangers who suck them off or welcome loads of their cum up the butt. But whether it is curiosity or compensation that is the motive for a TSG, a Theoretically Straight Guy, to offer full reciprocity in homosexual lovemaking, he is liable-a...

A few readers have asked me if there’s any scientific proof that we take in his DNA and absorb his seed when he pumps his load into us?  I am clearly a fucking scientist so you came to the right place.  While there have been very limited studies into anal sex with men specifically, we can certainly make some logical conclusions based on previous scientific studies. One thing we know without a fucking doubt: our holes are extremely absorbent and cum stays alive for days inside our bodies.   Semen plasma has a ridiculous amount of benefits to it. When a man finishes inside someone, it can affect the partner in a lot of ways. Usually, this happens through the vagina. However, newer research has shown that semen exuded in the anus during anal sex has the same effects and benefits. Some common benefits of sperm are as follows: natural anxiety reducer, anti-depressant, improves the quality of sleep, increases energy, natural pain reducer, improves mental alertness, and has the ...