Seriously dude. Stop jerking off.
That's something you did when you were growing up. It was easy, fun and pleasurable.
Feels good in the moment, but it's fleeting and empty.
It's just not fucking scratching the itch, is it?
Worse than that, you're cutting short your journey down your natural sexual urges by curbing them before they've had a chance to blossom. Being horny and exploring your sexuality isn't something to brush off. Let yourself get more horny, get in fuck mode. The mode where sex becomes a priority and you're not thinking normally. Stay there. That's a part of who you are. Explore it and own it.
Listen, I'm not saying don't get off. I absolutely think you should get off - but with someone.
So yeah, stroke, edge, think about sex. But the only time you should push yourself over the edge, the only time your balls should pull up and your cock muscles should launch sperm is in the presence of another person and inside another hole. It can be a gulping throat. It can be a massaging asshole that's milking every drop out of your cock.
Definitely edge. Definitely goon and look at porn. Your orgasm will always be more fulfilling and satisfying if you "jerk" but don't "jerk off". All of that's just a means to an end...and that end should happen with a partner.
Yeah, it's healthy to blow your load a few times a week, even once a day. So find someone to blow that fucking load into. Believe me, you won't have to look very far.
You might think I'm just speaking to the tops but, bottoms pay attention too.
If you're a bottom, you better not be fucking jerking off. Staying fucked up horny keeps you ready and hungry for cock and sperm. But, listen, I get it - eventually it happens. All of that built up sperm inside you has got to go somewhere. Ideally, you'll soak your sheets at night having one of those filthy, wet dreams that reveal just what a dirty, fucking pig you are. But, listen, I also get that a cock cumin down your throat, making you gag - or better yet - pounding against your prostate may be too much. So, yeah, if another cock is making you bust, I get that too.
Or you know what bottoms, be generous. Pay it forward. When you've hit your limits and done you duty and you've decided you need to empty your nut sack, find another bottom and FEED THEM. Give them your culminated and built up load. Sperm should never be fucking wasted.
Got it?
I loved the message and agree 100%! I’m a 23y gay bottom boy, and I am desperate to have cock inside me. I feel that the urge to have a cock and balls depp buried in my ass is just taking me down. There’s a long time that I don’t have sex and just jerk off with frequency, but I feel it’s not the same thing at all, cause even then my ass continue hungry and desperate for cock and I don’t know for how much time I can handle it anymore.
ReplyDeleteAnyway, thanks 🙏 for guiding me through your blog and twitter, cause you are really helping me and inspiring me to go looking forward the only thing that can “heal me” and give more purpose in life at the moment!
Your tweets are also extremely necessary for me and I am sure to other gay guys too…
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Super hot, I definitely prefer edging over jerking/cumming. It feels so good to goon for hours thinking about how I wanted to be filled up to the brim w daddy’s load. I like to go until either daddy tells me to cum or if I cum hands free just from the stroke (which I haven’t had yet but I’m eagerly anticipating) Currently been edging a bit over 2 weeks, I’m hoping it will aid me in my goal of hands free cum
ReplyDeleteAs a top this is so crucial.
ReplyDeleteOne of my hottest fantasies is making a sacred pact with a man, or a few men, where I would be held totally responsible for receiving 100 percent of their loads. Whenever they are in need, I do whatever I need to do to be available to receive their gift.
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